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Why we hate them 16: A battle of sexes with health facts in between

Dr. O.



…..Continued from episode 15.

After making her proposal, Nancy turned around to leave the office, doing what she probably assumed was a catwalk when in actual fact she looked like a baby grasshopper learning to hop, “I’ll be in the boardroom waiting” she announced before stepping out once she reached the door; “our meeting starts in exactly 45 minutes” she said pointing to her wristwatch with a mischievous smile on her face before finally walking out towards the boardroom.
“It seems like there’s something else between you two besides the project” Sandra said turning to face me when she left the room, I searched for the right words to respond to her statement as I turned to face her, I opened my mouth to talk but the words refused to come, instead, I found myself bursting into tears and sobbing like a little child.
I was shocked at my outburst but I couldn’t stop myself, it was one of those awkward moments where my eyes and lips had conspired to reveal my inner weakness and make a fool out of me.

I had been frustrated and confused about the whole situation; I didn’t know what to do or what to think and I hadn’t really confided in anyone besides Seun since the issues with Nonso started; unfortunately, I hadn’t been able to keep him up to date with the latest happenings because he had been away writing some major exams and I didn’t want to bug him with my man problems. I would’ve confided in Toun but ever since the first time Nonso cheated, she never wanted to as much as hear his name being called anywhere close to her, hence her reluctance to accompany me to bail him out initially. It didn’t help either that after convincing her to finally come with me, the reason for his arrest turned out to be another cheating attempt gone wrong, that gave her further excuses to justify her hatred for him making me lose the only lawyer I knew that I could turn to for help with his case.

Involving any of my family members was out of the question, we had enough family issues of our own to handle without adding Nonso’s cheating. I had been left alone to carry the burden of my cheating boyfriend and my once happy family which was slowly getting torn apart while I pretended to the world that all was well.

I guess my heart was getting tired of pretending, because I found myself bursting out in tears. Leaving me looking vulnerable in front of Sandra was probably it’s own way of telling me that it was tired of the stress I was putting it through; I was only too thankful that it at least waited for Nancy to leave the room before beginning it’s tearful protest.

“what’s the matter?” Sandra asked rushing over to my side and putting her arm round my shoulders; I wanted to respond but more tears came out instead.

I’m sure by then my eyes were probably as red as those of a person who had conjunctivitis. There I go again with my big grammar, maybe I should’ve just said “apollo” since that’s what it’s popularly known as. I still do not understand the logic behind that name, as a matter of fact I’d really like to meet the person that came up with such a crazy alternative of a name. Conjunctivitis is a condition that causes redness of the transparent tissue that lines the inner part of the eyelids and covers the white part of the eyeballs. It is usually caused by a either a bacterial or viral infection or an allergic reaction and can affect one or both eyes. Although it could be contagious, it cannot be contracted by looking into the eyes of the affected person as many people wrongly believe. It rarely affects vision and treatment will depend on the cause; viral infections will usually resolve spontaneously while bacterial infections may require the use of antibiotic eye drops or ointment.

Finally, after a few minutes of crying, I could speak without tears interrupting my speech.

“My boyfriend was arrested yesterday” I began, “arrested?” She gasped, “for what? I hope he didn’t commit any crime”,
I guess you can now understand why I was reluctant to tell her about any issues I had with Nonso, she was always so dramatic and usually thought of the worst things that could happen in every situation; I hated the negative energy. Besides, hearing about any of my issues with Nonso would only make her feel good about her boring marriage and I had been doing so well in avoiding that until then. I had already began confiding in her and it was too late to stop, so I just continued.

“No he didn’t commit any crime” I snapped, “he’s just being falsely accused of committing one”, “what really happened?” She asked, “I don’t know the full story…..” I began as I narrated a slightly altered version of the story to her, I told her Nonso and Nancy had dated in the past but he had broken off things with her long before we met and had maintained a cordial relationship since then even though Nancy had always wanted more, I left out the parts where he cheated on me repeatedly with her from the story, then I concluded by lying that he had gone to visit her because he was working on a proposal to her company and needed her help but she set him up and accused him of raping her because he had rejected numerous sexual advances from her in the past and had refused to break up with me to date her again.

“Gosh! the devil!” She exclaimed, “I always knew there was something about her I didn’t like, I just couldn’t place a finger on it” she said, “I don’t know why some women are so desperate”

“What do you intend to do now?” She asked, “I don’t know” I said shaking my head, “the worst part is that she’s threatening to make sure he goes to jail if I don’t break up with him….and I don’t even know any good lawyer that can help” I whined. “Don’t worry” she said patting my back, “I think I know someone who might be able to help” she said excitedly as I watched her eyes suddenly light up like she had just received some kind of divine revelation, “who is this person?” I asked curiously, “he’s my brother-in-law, he’s a lawyer” she announced, “i’ll call him after work today to discuss your case with him” she added, “really?” I asked feeling relieved to hear that there was hope, “yes” she affirmed, “I’m sure he’ll be willing to help” she concluded with a smile, “Thank you so much” I said hugging her.
I couldn’t believe how much better I felt after talking to her, it was like a heavy burden had just been lifted off my chest, I began to realise that she wasn’t as bad as I imagined, who would’ve ever thought she’d be the one to help me out with the same issue I never wanted her to know about? I guess that’s why it’s bad to judge people without getting to know them first.

“Meeting starts in five” Our boss announced interrupting our heart-to-heart talk as he popped his head into the office while standing at the door, “please move to the boardroom now.”
I hurriedly packed my files and laptop to follow him behind, I was dreading going for the meeting mainly because it meant I had to sit for another 3600 seconds in the same room with my worst enemy. I had decided that I wasn’t going to give Nonso up without a fight and I had made up my mind to break the bad news to her right after the meeting…..

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Dr.O is a graduate of the University of Szeged in Hungary who is on a mission to reduce the mortality rate in our society by creating awareness about preventable and non-preventable diseases and empowering people with the necessary knowledge and information they need to take charge of their health. was co-founded by her as a means to fulfilling this mission. She is an MDCN (Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria) and Hungarian Medical Chamber certified doctor. When she is not busy looking for ways to make a difference in her environment, you can find her trying out new recipes in the kitchen or touring the world.